Consulting people for more than a year, I periodically come across this question: “How much do you need to meet before the wedding?” I have heard hundreds of stories that allowed me to form my opinion on this matter. This will not be a recipe for family happiness, but it may save you from some illusions.
When a client or client comes to me and starts talking about their relationship, the first thing I’m interested in is the history of their relationship, as well as the term. And you know
when I hear that the relationship is 4-5-7 years old and the couple are not yet married, I consider this an Continue reading
Often a relationship with a man who seemed to have started well ends quickly, leaving an unpleasant aftertaste or emptiness. It is important to understand in time who is next to you so as not to make a mistake, taking love or passion for love. Passion passes, and it can be replaced by love, friendship, mutual respect. But if a person nearby is alien in spirit, then the family will collapse. Evaluate whether the following displays of mutual love are characteristic of your relationship.
Naturalness. Next to him, you do not need to play any role, try to seem better than you are. There is no pretense in your relationship, sometimes there is only a game that is pleasant to both of you. He likes you any: stupid or smart, funny or insecure. He loves you with all the flaws, and sincerely finds them sweet and funny. Continue reading