No one owes nothing to nobody?
"No one owes nothing to nobody!" - I said thirty years ago in the book "How to treat yourself and people: practical psychology for every day." Since then, an equal…

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How is psychological attachment formed
Attachment is a connection that attracts and holds a person next to someone or something when neither a feeling of love, nor interest or benefit connects him with it. To…

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Ji must be let go! - How do we push each other
I will suggest you look at a small fragment of a conversation between two well-educated and already loving each other people. Their names are Ricky and Kate. This small conversation…

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I want to give birth to a child from a married man

A year ago, returning from a business trip, I stopped by my friends and involuntarily witnessed a discussion of the life situation in which there was one woman who decided to have a child from a married man. The discussion was quite emotional, sometimes opinions were directly opposite. They also turned to me with a request to express their opinion.

I replied that only a serious, deep conversation with this woman would help clarify the situation, and it would be possible to suggest options for her harmonious resolution. To my surprise, two days later she came to me for a consultation. Continue reading

How to behave a girl to get married

The fact that getting married is not the most important thing in the girl’s life, the girls understand that they are already married and faced with the fact that it does not at all look like the life of a fairy-tale princess in a magic castle. In a good way, not all girls can be married: you don’t want to spoil the life of either them or young people; however, fighting that girls want to get married is pointless. Moreover, this goal is not bad: in moving towards this goal, girls can grow wiser and get acquainted with what self-control, discipline and control of their emotions are. It is possible to marry successfully and by accident, but by chance becoming a good wife will not work, you need to be able to take care of yourself and follow the rules. So, if in the desire to get married the girl will teach herself to follow the rules, will teach to subordinate her desires and impulses to what is “necessary”, she will learn one of the most important life Continue reading

What to learn from a European family

The rational and very useful achievement of the European family – the lack of division of responsibilities between women and men, may seem controversial for a Russian person, but it works with a high degree of efficiency.

For example, the decision of who exactly in the family should make money is made from the real possibilities of the family, that is, the one who knows how to do it better earns. And the gender issue does not arise here. If for the common benefit of the family the spouses agree that the wife should go to a good job after maternity leave, because she will earn more than her husband, he will safely take on the function of the father on maternity leave, and paid. This is provided by the state and justified by the rational law of life. Continue reading

How to prepare the second half and parents to get to know each other
No one knows for sure when it comes - the right time to meet the second half with their parents. Someone does this long before the decision is made on…

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8 ways to ruin your wedding night
The wedding day is full of events and experiences. You have been waiting for him for so long and now, finally, he has arrived. Beautiful outfits, friends and relatives (with…

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Romantic love: Helen Fisher studies the brain of lovers
Why do all people crave love and are even ready to die for it? To answer this question, a research group led by Helen Fisher undertook to study the results…

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Integrated wedding design: what is included in it?
We tell you what is included in the complex design of the wedding and understand the purpose of each zone. 1. Materials for decoration Now in the decoration of weddings…

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