10 things to not be afraid of at your wedding
During the preparation for the wedding, you tried to think through every detail, because as you know, there are no trifles. Nevertheless, there is a possibility that on this day…

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As a man from a beloved, bring up an excellent wife
I was asked a question from a woman: “Can a man make a real mistress of a wife, a shoreline, a keeper of a hearth, soft and supple, supportive in…

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10 most common brides mistakes before the wedding
To organize a truly memorable wedding, you need to spend a lot of time and nerves. Often, the bride, without realizing it, makes the preparation more difficult than it could…

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I want to be loved and happy

We women love to dream. Imagine a prince on a white horse, a house full of flowers, kisses and smart kids at a family dinner … Why, then again and again, our dreams are broken about cruel reality? After all, we really want to be loved and happy!
Unfortunately, we are not able to transform these dreams into reality. We were not taught this in childhood, and we live in illusions: I want one thing, but in fact in life it’s completely different. In this discrepancy is our suffering, our pain.

So, stop dreaming? To abandon girl’s dreams once and for all, to accept the axiom “all men are goats”, to reconcile with their fate? I’m sure you met women who chose this path. It is sad to look at them – tired and worn out, living in eternal discontent, and, worse, in humiliation. They do not experience inner torment, they live as it turns out, and do not aim for more. Continue reading

Romantic love: Helen Fisher studies the brain of lovers

Why do all people crave love and are even ready to die for it? To answer this question, a research group led by Helen Fisher undertook to study the results of brain tomography of lovers and those who recently experienced a breakdown.

American anthropologist Helen Fisher
Helen Fisher
Professor Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University in New Jersey, author of five books and hundreds of scientific articles, studies human love as a biology phenomenon.

Fisher became known for her studies of the behavior of people in love. From the point of view of an Continue reading

How much to meet before the wedding?

Consulting people for more than a year, I periodically come across this question: “How much do you need to meet before the wedding?” I have heard hundreds of stories that allowed me to form my opinion on this matter. This will not be a recipe for family happiness, but it may save you from some illusions.

When a client or client comes to me and starts talking about their relationship, the first thing I’m interested in is the history of their relationship, as well as the term. And you know

when I hear that the relationship is 4-5-7 years old and the couple are not yet married, I consider this an Continue reading

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Ji must be let go! - How do we push each other
I will suggest you look at a small fragment of a conversation between two well-educated and already loving each other people. Their names are Ricky and Kate. This small conversation…

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8 ways to ruin your wedding night
The wedding day is full of events and experiences. You have been waiting for him for so long and now, finally, he has arrived. Beautiful outfits, friends and relatives (with…

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No one owes nothing to nobody?
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And what do you think? - dialogue support and vaccination against categorization
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