How to prepare the second half and parents to get to know each other
No one knows for sure when it comes - the right time to meet the second half with their parents. Someone does this long before the decision is made on…

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10 things to not be afraid of at your wedding
During the preparation for the wedding, you tried to think through every detail, because as you know, there are no trifles. Nevertheless, there is a possibility that on this day…

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How to prepare the second half and parents to get to know each other
No one knows for sure when it comes - the right time to meet the second half with their parents. Someone does this long before the decision is made on…

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And what do you think? – dialogue support and vaccination against categorization

Discussing difficult issues is not easy. When people are addicted, they begin to speak categorically, throw a lot of negativity on the partner and just immediately talk about a lot, raising several topics at once. How to discuss this? Only if you answer the same.
“I get tired, but you don’t help me and behave as if all your whims should be fulfilled immediately!” – what to answer? Now listen to another conversation: “I’m tired and would like to discuss with you, can I count on your help?” – “Oh sure!”. If the conversation is built in the form of dialogue, it’s easier to negotiate. Continue reading

A real woman is always a cat

Dogs are loyal to the owner and are well trained. Cats come to the house to enjoy food and home comfort, but are not attached to the owners, are poorly trained and walk on their own. If you give the dog a command, she will execute it. If you try to give the cat a command, it will at best turn its head in your direction and look at you carefully. In men, dog psychology. In women, cat psychology. A real woman is always a cat.
It is interesting that in childhood you can not see it. Everyone knows that the boys’ parents do not obey, run shaggy, scream and fight, scatter things, do not do homework and run away from home. But girls are more obedient to boys, behave well, are neat and combed, more often help around the house and in case of disagreement they do not rebel, but cry quietly. If the girl fights and runs away from home, then she is Continue reading

Ji must be let go! – How do we push each other

I will suggest you look at a small fragment of a conversation between two well-educated and already loving each other people. Their names are Ricky and Kate. This small conversation is unlikely to attract your attention – it is so ordinary, familiar, not distinguished by anything. And in my opinion, this is outrageous, because the way Kate says here is an example of rotten negative manipulations, and the link “But everyone does the same!” matters does not change. Let everyone do it – but will you do it?

I am sure that most of the readers of the Psychologist of this article will not understand and will call the author a petty person who, for nothing, will find fault with women. You have the right to such opinions, but you may also be interested in another Continue reading

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