A real woman is always a cat
Dogs are loyal to the owner and are well trained. Cats come to the house to enjoy food and home comfort, but are not attached to the owners, are poorly trained and walk on their own. If you give the dog a command, she will execute it. If you try to give the cat a command, it will at best turn its head in your direction and look at you carefully. In men, dog psychology. In women, cat psychology. A real woman is always a cat.
It is interesting that in childhood you can not see it. Everyone knows that the boys’ parents do not obey, run shaggy, scream and fight, scatter things, do not do homework and run away from home. But girls are more obedient to boys, behave well, are neat and combed, more often help around the house and in case of disagreement they do not rebel, but cry quietly. If the girl fights and runs away from home, then she is said to have a boyish character.
In fact, this is not so. If the boy does not agree with his parents, he does not obey them openly and is ready to fight for his independence, but if the son and father agree, he performs what was said in the “Said – done” mode. With girls, everything is different: it seems to you that she is listening to you, but this is not so. Girls are cunning, they do not fight openly, they use a more subtle arsenal.
If you ask her to clean the dishes, she will probably clean her, but not immediately, but when she is more comfortable. If you put pressure on her, she will be offended and will cry so that you no longer do so. And if she is in a good mood, she herself will run to do the dishes, but along the way she will hug you around the neck, tell some nonsense in a cheerful voice (listen to everything, right?), And as a result everything will turn out as always: she did not obey you, she she did what she wanted. The girl, like a small pussy, will not quarrel with you, but if you demand something from her, she will bend you, make funny or sad eyes, tell you something or drop her shoulders powerlessly … Yes, she will do , but later, in his own way and with his feelings, and this will be her decision, not your order. And in this sense, the girl does not obey her parents almost never.
You asked – she wanted, she went and did it to you. She did because you asked? No, because she herself wanted it.
You raised your voice – she was scared and did. She did because you demanded? No, because she was driven by her fear. Fear is hers, and she only listens to herself.
A girl blooms into a girl, a girl becomes a woman and goes hunting. Looking at men and looking for a man, a woman is always looking for a good master: that strong man who will protect and feed her. Finding such a person, she is looking for strings that will give her access to his heart.
Men are invaders, they need to defeat everyone and be the first in everything. The woman’s task is different – to capture the invader. She must get the winner’s heart so that he himself brings everything to her feet and also asks her to accept these gifts. A real woman will never compete with a man, instead, she will arrange a situation where he will seek it, and she will build artificial barriers to get him more expensive.
When a man became her, the woman of this master is training. She has a great task: she needs to accustom the owner to the fact that with her he can act only in a good way. She teaches him patiently. When he is affectionate with her, she is affectionate to him. If he is distracted from her and does not guess what she wants, she gently hurts him, shows him his heartache. If he dares to demand something from her or not give her what she wants, she either falls exhausted or creates a tantrum, thereby showing that such an attitude is a dead end to her. A woman will obey her master only in two cases: when she is well rewarded for it or when she wants it herself.
A woman lives by feelings, that is, by what was born or reflected in her body. If you turned to her mind, but she did not feel it in herself, this is not real for her. You can logically prove to a girl what you want, your logic can be impeccable, but if a girl feels that you are not right, but she is right, she will be right. A woman decides everything herself, because she lives by feelings, and feelings live in her. If a woman senses something, she now knows the truth, but she cannot go against the truth, that is, against herself.
A woman easily obeys circumstances. Unlike men who like to fight, it’s much easier for a woman to adapt. A woman is executive when her boss is not her man for her, but she will never obey any man if she is her man and she is “in a relationship” with him. The cat does only what she decided.
If the cat is driven away, she will leave, but she will leave by herself. If you forgave the cat and allowed her to return, she will come to you, but only after you yourself ask for forgiveness from her.
By obeying, a woman never obeys unconditionally. If they demand something from her, she will always compare your demand with her feelings.