8 ways to ruin your wedding night
The wedding day is full of events and experiences. You have been waiting for him for so long and now, finally, he has arrived. Beautiful outfits, friends and relatives (with some of whom you have not seen for so long) flowers, candles, music, cake, smiles, tears and dances without looking back. But, as you know, a wedding day for young people is only half the program.
The second part is the first wedding night. Often spouses get so exhausted that they have no strength left at all. And they themselves do everything possible for this. If you want to just sleep peacefully on your first wedding night, follow simple recommendations.
Spend a bachelor party and a bachelorette party on the eve of the wedding and go to bed before dawn. You will look bad and want to sleep the whole next day, and the next night (she will be the first wedding) will fall asleep as a baby’s sleep. So you spoil not only the first wedding night, but the whole wedding day. Well, to spoil so to spoil.
Choose uncomfortable clothes and shoes for your wedding day. If the bride’s shoes squeeze her leg tightly, the corset will be so tight that it will not allow her to breathe calmly, and the bridegroom, who cannot stand the tie, will still put him on the wedding, will be angry, straighten and endure all day, the strength of both will end already holiday banquet. At night you will fall asleep with absolute probability.
At the wedding table, drink more alcoholic beverages and eat as if you had not been fed a day before. This approach to eating food and drinks also contributes to a good night’s sleep.
Stay overnight at home with your parents, it is even better if several guests who could not leave home stay there for the night. The presence of “ears” behind the wall is likely to prevent you from relaxing and spending your wedding night correctly. “Ears”, however, help to behave quietly and eventually fall asleep.
Count everything that was presented to you, be sure to discuss what you spend money on. You can even try to quarrel over this.
Give up romance. On your wedding night you will not need candles, aromatic oils, beautiful bedding, flowers, or even words of love you can refuse. Why all this? Romance is good at the beginning of a relationship, and now you are already husband and wife, and you don’t have to strain much more to please each other.
Discuss in detail how your wedding went. Which of the guests behaved like himself, who had drunk and was excessively cheerful, and who, on the contrary, was indecently sad. How considerate the photographer was, and if you were mistaken with the choice of host. Everything is required in detail. You will not notice how the morning comes.
Treat your wedding night formally. After all, you are very tired, why do you need all kinds of massages, foreplay, a joint shower. You can immediately start with the main thing. And .. Quickly finish.
Stag and hen parties should be carried out at least three days before the wedding.
Think carefully about your wedding dresses so that you are comfortable in them. Prepare replaceable clothes and shoes that can be worn if something happens.
If you want to spend a romantic night, at the banquet you should prefer light salads, vegetable snacks, fruits, fish and seafood, which are known to be aphrodisiacs. It is better to refuse alcohol altogether. You will already be “high” from the emotions of this day.
If you do not yet have your own apartment, then book a hotel room. It can be either a special bridal suite or just a cozy room. And be sure to order breakfast in your room the next day. He will only add romance.
Leave the tally of gifts and money for a more appropriate time. In the end, all this is already yours and will not run away.
The most important thing in your story begins with a wedding, and you should be especially attentive to each other. The new status of your couple can both cool feelings and, conversely, strengthen them. If you ordered a special room for the bride and groom at the hotel, then everything will be there. If you have a regular number, you can ask your bridesmaids to decorate it.
The conversation about how the wedding went, as well as the counting of gifts, should be left for later.
If you did everything before nightfall so that you don’t get tired much, then you will definitely want to perform all the romantic rituals. And if you are still tired, then who knows, maybe they will just breathe strength into you.