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10 things to not be afraid of at your wedding

During the preparation for the wedding, you tried to think through every detail, because as you know, there are no trifles. Nevertheless, there is a possibility that on this day something will go wrong anyway, because in life it is almost impossible to control absolutely everything.

Of course, a significant part of the hustle and bustle will be taken over by the wedding organizer and the coordinators, a certain proportion of the problems will fall on the shoulders of the main bridesmaid. But it is possible that some disappointments will reach the bride herself.

The best way to respond to them on your wedding day is to not give them much importance, relax and enjoy every minute. And all your complaints to the culprits with a great desire can be made after.

So why not be afraid on your wedding day?

Tear tights and mess up the dress. Be sure: both are likely to happen. After all, you have a very active day. At the expense of the dress, you should not worry at all, no one will notice the dust at the bottom of the hem. And you can take tights with you.
City traffic jams. The organizer will probably advise you to plan the day so that the crossings are as few as possible, and so that they are as short as possible. But if suddenly you get stuck in traffic anyway, don’t worry, they won’t start without you anyway. The only place to get on time is the registry office.
Wedding cake. Some brides are very afraid of getting dirty with a wedding cake. If this happens, your sense of humor will help. And the guests will most likely decide that it is very romantic.
Errors in the actions of wedding assistants. Decorators can do something wrong, mix up flowers or the color of napkins. The bad decision is to get upset about it on your wedding day. A good decision is to leave everything as it is on the wedding day, and then express your complaints to the culprits. If the mistake was very serious, ask for a discount or a full refund.
Inappropriate behavior of relatives. Of course, you know the habits of all your relatives very well. Their advantages and disadvantages are not a secret for you. On the eve of the wedding, you and the organizer must have thought out how to put everyone at the tables so that no one quarrels, and your uncle and aunt who are divorced will not sit next to you. And you warned the leader that your cousin, when he drinks, likes to make too long speeches, and the leader will keep this in mind, come up with something. But if, despite all this, some kind of awkwardness happens, try to take it calmly. A good attitude towards people will work best.
That the guests are too drunk. A good host will prevent guests from leaning on alcohol; he will occupy them with interesting interactive events and contests. If someone gets drunk anyway, see the previous paragraph. Remember that this is not your problem. Let the coordinators and relatives of the drunken guest deal with this.
Disappearances of the second half. Despite the fact that the theft of the bride and groom at weddings is practiced less and less, it is not excluded. So the unexpected loss of the second half, most likely, is due to this. Worry only in one case: if the groom disappears the day before the wedding. But that rarely happens.
Fall asleep on the wedding night. Let’s open the secret: if the wedding was a success, then the newlyweds after it fall asleep, like the dead. They will not have the strength for anything. An exception, of course, are weddings for two or with a small number of guests. So sleep on health, you have your whole life ahead.
Kazusov. No one is safe from strange and unexpected situations. Most likely, they will only add to your celebration a reason to laugh.
Continue the list. On a wedding day, as on any other day, anything can happen. You do not panic on other days from minor troubles. Use this skill at a wedding, here it will be more opportune than ever.

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