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How to behave a girl to get married

The fact that getting married is not the most important thing in the girl’s life, the girls understand that they are already married and faced with the fact that it does not at all look like the life of a fairy-tale princess in a magic castle. In a good way, not all girls can be married: you don’t want to spoil the life of either them or young people; however, fighting that girls want to get married is pointless. Moreover, this goal is not bad: in moving towards this goal, girls can grow wiser and get acquainted with what self-control, discipline and control of their emotions are. It is possible to marry successfully and by accident, but by chance becoming a good wife will not work, you need to be able to take care of yourself and follow the rules. So, if in the desire to get married the girl will teach herself to follow the rules, will teach to subordinate her desires and impulses to what is “necessary”, she will learn one of the most important life lessons. And this is already excellent.
My daughters read the book Ellen Feyn and Sherry Schneider “Rules. How to Marry the Man of Your Dreams”, it seemed practical to them, but for me it was a good reason for me to write an article about this and even include an interesting curriculum at the University of Practical Psychology assignment related to this book. I used the materials of my daughters, supplementing my observations on how prudent girls act. I find much in such recommendations controversial, but I know that many girls have successfully used these tips. So, other girls have the right to know about this. And by the way, even men will be warned about this.

So, lovely girls and charming women, you have the rules!
In any case, there are rules, there are rules for building relationships with men, and they should be known so as not to make unnecessary mistakes. If you behave correctly, the man calls you and invites you. If a girl tells herself and others that he is “just afraid of obligations” or “not ready for a relationship,” there are two options: either the girl is completely unattractive, or, most likely, she behaves wrong with him. If you want to get married, how to behave correctly?

You are always inwardly calm and happy.
You are always inwardly calm and happy.
First, you are always happy. Once you can be nice to a young man, once cool, but that does not negate the main thing: your inner “Good”, inner well-being. You always have funny eyes and a sunny smile. You never complain, you are not upset (can you handle this? Is it necessary), and you don’t speak badly about anyone. Always behave politely, like an English queen surrounded by lovely subjects.
Second, you look after your appearance and look beautiful. It is clear that you do not have any bad habits (is that already so?), It is incompatible with your task. You eat right, you do sports and dances useful for you, you have an elegant figure, you are always dressed feminine, neat, bright and tasteful. You know the details of this science better than us. We are about relationships. So,

The third and main thing is that you treat men well, but you do not aspire to marry, you are not in love with anyone, and you are not very interested in relationships. Every detail is important here.
First, you treat men well. You have a positive outlook on life, you like living, you treat people and men in particular well. You do not like to complain, you are not offended by anyone, you do not plan to take revenge on anyone, men are not goats or scum, no one betrayed you – and so on, everything is fine with you. Have you agreed?

Learn this phrase – and forget forever!
Learn this phrase – and forget forever!
Second – you do not seek to get married. In no conversation with a man never say “I want to get married.” For men, this wording sounds completely different from how it is heard by girls; it sounds to them the same way it would sound from a man, “I want a woman” from a man. Men hear “I want to get married” as “I want to be on the man’s neck so that he would support me and take care of me.” Another thing is if you once say: “Of course, you always want to have a loved one close by who you can take care of, with whom you can build a happy relationship!” – The content is the same, but it sounds attractive.

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