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Romantic love: Helen Fisher studies the brain of lovers
Why do all people crave love and are even ready to die for it? To answer this question, a research group led by Helen Fisher undertook to study the results…

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Uncertainty before the wedding: the opinion of a psychologist
Many couples think that a wedding is the peak in a relationship you want to strive for, or the finish line, followed by a reward - unlimited happiness. A successful…

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Romantic love: Helen Fisher studies the brain of lovers
Why do all people crave love and are even ready to die for it? To answer this question, a research group led by Helen Fisher undertook to study the results…

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How to behave a girl to get married

The fact that getting married is not the most important thing in the girl’s life, the girls understand that they are already married and faced with the fact that it does not at all look like the life of a fairy-tale princess in a magic castle. In a good way, not all girls can be married: you don’t want to spoil the life of either them or young people; however, fighting that girls want to get married is pointless. Moreover, this goal is not bad: in moving towards this goal, girls can grow wiser and get acquainted with what self-control, discipline and control of their emotions are. It is possible to marry successfully and by accident, but by chance becoming a good wife will not work, you need to be able to take care of yourself and follow the rules. So, if in the desire to get married the girl will teach herself to follow the rules, will teach to subordinate her desires and impulses to what is “necessary”, she will learn one of the most important life Continue reading

What to learn from a European family

The rational and very useful achievement of the European family – the lack of division of responsibilities between women and men, may seem controversial for a Russian person, but it works with a high degree of efficiency.

For example, the decision of who exactly in the family should make money is made from the real possibilities of the family, that is, the one who knows how to do it better earns. And the gender issue does not arise here. If for the common benefit of the family the spouses agree that the wife should go to a good job after maternity leave, because she will earn more than her husband, he will safely take on the function of the father on maternity leave, and paid. This is provided by the state and justified by the rational law of life. Continue reading

Family constitution

Our family is our world and our small state. Our Constitution is the main rule of our state. Our rules are not directed against anyone, but in the name of protecting the interests of each family member. They protect everyone and benefit everyone.
Family is work. And since this is our favorite work, we treat it with soul, joy and responsibility. If we are fully adequate at work, we can be the same in the family. When we need to remind this, we say: “Work format!”, After which we look after ourselves as if at work. If we do not understand how to solve a difficult issue, we recall how such issues are resolved in the treasury of common sense – in a reasonable business.

Territory Rule
Everything that happens in the family is divided into three territories: my personal territory, your personal territory and our common territory. With a natural consequence: on my territory I am the master, on yours you, on the common Continue reading

Loves a woman, loves a child

“Loves a woman, loves a child.” I very often hear this saying when it comes to talking about the children that a man receives with his beloved woman.

Does a man give love to a woman an automatic opportunity to become sympathetic to her child?

As I have to observe, it does not. Too many men do not at all experience enthusiastic feelings towards their woman’s children from previous relationships.

And is it the only “fault” here of this particular man?

As life shows, men even love their own children not so much for the call of blood, but for specific Continue reading

Family is a common goal

You have met or heard such stories. Imagine a line near the office of an official. About 20 people are sitting and everyone needs the only help. And then the secretary comes out and reports that the official is no longer accepting today, and has just left. What you will see the unity of angry citizens, who before this did not even care about each other!

Also in the family. Imagine: a couple, not the first year together, tired of family life. They tolerate each other, but on the whole they have not experienced much pleasure from communicating with each other for a long time – a lot of discontent, disagreement, resentment has accumulated. But suddenly something happened. For example, a child fell ill, and not just with a runny nose, but with something requiring a long and difficult treatment. And parents unite in front of a common task – the child must be cured at all Continue reading

How is psychological attachment formed
Attachment is a connection that attracts and holds a person next to someone or something when neither a feeling of love, nor interest or benefit connects him with it. To…

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When a family is created through sex, there’s nothing good about it
“Our women have three sexual disorders: pedophilia, bestiality, masochism.” Recently, marriage statistics look like a social catastrophe: the number of divorces is almost equal to the number of marriages. According…

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What to learn from a European family
The rational and very useful achievement of the European family - the lack of division of responsibilities between women and men, may seem controversial for a Russian person, but it…

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Love and self-esteem. Idealization of a partner in premarital relations
Love is a conformal reaction to the norms and values ​​that prevail in society. And the norm in a modern developed society is, in particular, the idea that everyone at…

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