8 “worst” brides' fears: how to stop being afraid?
“He will see me in a wedding dress, and he will not like me”, “I will never look in this dress like the model in the catalog”, “what if I…

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6 duties of the main bridesmaid
The merry bridesmaids and friends of the groom, it seems, have completely crowded out the witnesses who were relevant at Soviet weddings. But honeymooners still cannot do without people on…

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And what do you think? - dialogue support and vaccination against categorization
Discussing difficult issues is not easy. When people are addicted, they begin to speak categorically, throw a lot of negativity on the partner and just immediately talk about a lot,…

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vivid experiences

Scripts in love

If a person loves, he cares about whom he loves, but caring for us by us is not always perceived by us with gratitude and enthusiasm. We have our own, albeit sometimes vague, ideas of what we need and how we need to be taken care of, and only if the lover acts according to a scenario that suits us, this concern will please us. Accordingly, one of the important competencies in love is the knowledge of what and how to make a loved one, so that he perceives it and appreciates it as love, knowledge of the necessary scenarios and the ability to reproduce them.
Pictures of love
We all love to dream of love and compose beautiful pictures of how loving people should live together. It seems to me that this is very important, and it is important to treat pictures of love not as empty dreams, but as specific instructions, as behavioral requirements: if in your picture you see that people who love each other behave just like that, that means and do it. Create pictures of happiness of love – and follow Continue reading

Family constitution
Our family is our world and our small state. Our Constitution is the main rule of our state. Our rules are not directed against anyone, but in the name of…

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No one owes nothing to nobody?
"No one owes nothing to nobody!" - I said thirty years ago in the book "How to treat yourself and people: practical psychology for every day." Since then, an equal…

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About Love ... and the difficult rules of its preservation
Short report of one consultation. Request: “We have been dating for 2 years, we still can’t live together. Are planning. He says that he loves me very much. And not…

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Rapprochement
The approach mechanism can be described through a metaphor of flowing water. Here comes a dense stream. He rests against an obstacle, stands in front of it for some time,…

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