And what do you think? - dialogue support and vaccination against categorization
Discussing difficult issues is not easy. When people are addicted, they begin to speak categorically, throw a lot of negativity on the partner and just immediately talk about a lot,…

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What men are afraid of before the wedding: 5 fears of grooms
It happens that before the wedding, a strange story happens with the bride: she begins to panic and fear marriage. It seems to have been dreaming of a wedding for…

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We got the relationship, but we don’t want to disperse: 7 rules for those who want to improve their relationship
Once you could lie nearby and enjoy dreaming, looking together at the high sky, but today it’s hard for you to talk even on everyday topics. You used to love…

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Family constitution

Our family is our world and our small state. Our Constitution is the main rule of our state. Our rules are not directed against anyone, but in the name of protecting the interests of each family member. They protect everyone and benefit everyone.
Family is work. And since this is our favorite work, we treat it with soul, joy and responsibility. If we are fully adequate at work, we can be the same in the family. When we need to remind this, we say: “Work format!”, After which we look after ourselves as if at work. If we do not understand how to solve a difficult issue, we recall how such issues are resolved in the treasury of common sense – in a reasonable business.

Territory Rule
Everything that happens in the family is divided into three territories: my personal territory, your personal territory and our common territory. With a natural consequence: on my territory I am the master, on yours you, on the common Continue reading

Family is a common goal

You have met or heard such stories. Imagine a line near the office of an official. About 20 people are sitting and everyone needs the only help. And then the secretary comes out and reports that the official is no longer accepting today, and has just left. What you will see the unity of angry citizens, who before this did not even care about each other!

Also in the family. Imagine: a couple, not the first year together, tired of family life. They tolerate each other, but on the whole they have not experienced much pleasure from communicating with each other for a long time – a lot of discontent, disagreement, resentment has accumulated. But suddenly something happened. For example, a child fell ill, and not just with a runny nose, but with something requiring a long and difficult treatment. And parents unite in front of a common task – the child must be cured at all Continue reading

We got the relationship, but we don’t want to disperse: 7 rules for those who want to improve their relationship

Once you could lie nearby and enjoy dreaming, looking together at the high sky, but today it’s hard for you to talk even on everyday topics. You used to love walking, holding hands, but today you don’t want to think about kissing him or her … Relationships sometimes get messy, but you have a common house, you have children, and it seems silly to disperse …

If your relationship has bothered you in your pair, but you believe that your relationship curves can be corrected, and, moreover, you want to correct them, then the following recommendations will help you. They are not fiction, they are developed in practice. They are tested, they work, but only among intelligent people who, in their own experience, developed and tested them. And, most importantly, these are not abstract recommendations, but clear and working instructions. Continue reading

What you need to discuss with the groom in preparation for the wedding
Usually grooms are much less involved in preparing for the wedding than brides. Most often, girls shoulder the complex burden of organizing one of the most important and biggest holidays…

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When a family is created through sex, there’s nothing good about it
“Our women have three sexual disorders: pedophilia, bestiality, masochism.” Recently, marriage statistics look like a social catastrophe: the number of divorces is almost equal to the number of marriages. According…

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No one owes nothing to nobody?
"No one owes nothing to nobody!" - I said thirty years ago in the book "How to treat yourself and people: practical psychology for every day." Since then, an equal…

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Family is a common goal
You have met or heard such stories. Imagine a line near the office of an official. About 20 people are sitting and everyone needs the only help. And then the…

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