How much to meet before the wedding?
Consulting people for more than a year, I periodically come across this question: “How much do you need to meet before the wedding?” I have heard hundreds of stories that…

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No one owes nothing to nobody?
"No one owes nothing to nobody!" - I said thirty years ago in the book "How to treat yourself and people: practical psychology for every day." Since then, an equal…

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Love and self-esteem. Idealization of a partner in premarital relations
Love is a conformal reaction to the norms and values ​​that prevail in society. And the norm in a modern developed society is, in particular, the idea that everyone at…

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We got the relationship, but we don’t want to disperse: 7 rules for those who want to improve their relationship

Once you could lie nearby and enjoy dreaming, looking together at the high sky, but today it’s hard for you to talk even on everyday topics. You used to love walking, holding hands, but today you don’t want to think about kissing him or her … Relationships sometimes get messy, but you have a common house, you have children, and it seems silly to disperse …

If your relationship has bothered you in your pair, but you believe that your relationship curves can be corrected, and, moreover, you want to correct them, then the following recommendations will help you. They are not fiction, they are developed in practice. They are tested, they work, but only among intelligent people who, in their own experience, developed and tested them. And, most importantly, these are not abstract recommendations, but clear and working instructions. Continue reading

No one owes nothing to nobody?

“No one owes nothing to nobody!” – I said thirty years ago in the book “How to treat yourself and people: practical psychology for every day.” Since then, an equal number of people have been sending me fiery thanks for this position, which gave them wisdom and peace of mind, as well as equally fire-breathing claims from those who began to think so, treat people like that and as a result have broken their lives.

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I wake up early in the morning, I need to quickly pack up: I’m flying on a business trip. I understand that I don’t have time: the things are not all collected, but it would be nice to have breakfast. My wife is lying, but she could probably get up and help me … I’m ready to express my reproaches to her, but I stop myself at once: “Does this Continue reading

A real woman is always a cat

Dogs are loyal to the owner and are well trained. Cats come to the house to enjoy food and home comfort, but are not attached to the owners, are poorly trained and walk on their own. If you give the dog a command, she will execute it. If you try to give the cat a command, it will at best turn its head in your direction and look at you carefully. In men, dog psychology. In women, cat psychology. A real woman is always a cat.
It is interesting that in childhood you can not see it. Everyone knows that the boys’ parents do not obey, run shaggy, scream and fight, scatter things, do not do homework and run away from home. But girls are more obedient to boys, behave well, are neat and combed, more often help around the house and in case of disagreement they do not rebel, but cry quietly. If the girl fights and runs away from home, then she is Continue reading

What you need to discuss with the groom in preparation for the wedding
Usually grooms are much less involved in preparing for the wedding than brides. Most often, girls shoulder the complex burden of organizing one of the most important and biggest holidays…

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How is psychological attachment formed
Attachment is a connection that attracts and holds a person next to someone or something when neither a feeling of love, nor interest or benefit connects him with it. To…

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Ji must be let go! - How do we push each other
I will suggest you look at a small fragment of a conversation between two well-educated and already loving each other people. Their names are Ricky and Kate. This small conversation…

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How to arrange a place for a photo shoot at a wedding: accessories, press wall, photo zone
Not a single wedding can do without bright colorful photographs. The participation of the newlyweds in their own photo shoot with a professional photographer on pre-selected venues has long become…

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