And what do you think? - dialogue support and vaccination against categorization
Discussing difficult issues is not easy. When people are addicted, they begin to speak categorically, throw a lot of negativity on the partner and just immediately talk about a lot,…

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6 duties of the main bridesmaid
The merry bridesmaids and friends of the groom, it seems, have completely crowded out the witnesses who were relevant at Soviet weddings. But honeymooners still cannot do without people on…

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How to learn to take money from a man?
Most often, considering the financial side of relations with men, women are almost always portrayed as some kind of “predators”, who lure money from the stronger sex. And the reverse…

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I want to be loved and happy

We women love to dream. Imagine a prince on a white horse, a house full of flowers, kisses and smart kids at a family dinner … Why, then again and again, our dreams are broken about cruel reality? After all, we really want to be loved and happy!
Unfortunately, we are not able to transform these dreams into reality. We were not taught this in childhood, and we live in illusions: I want one thing, but in fact in life it’s completely different. In this discrepancy is our suffering, our pain.

So, stop dreaming? To abandon girl’s dreams once and for all, to accept the axiom “all men are goats”, to reconcile with their fate? I’m sure you met women who chose this path. It is sad to look at them – tired and worn out, living in eternal discontent, and, worse, in humiliation. They do not experience inner torment, they live as it turns out, and do not aim for more. Continue reading

How is psychological attachment formed

Attachment is a connection that attracts and holds a person next to someone or something when neither a feeling of love, nor interest or benefit connects him with it.
To whom or what people are not attached to! To your beloved spoon and puppy, to work and place of residence, to the old jacket and to each other … Some of these attachments are understandable and justified, others are more like eccentricities, some are a big nuisance. Most modern people are attached to comfort, to a TV, the Internet, a mobile phone – they are drawn to all this, even when a person understands that you can do without it and even better to do it. People get used to their favorite chair, to jeans, to a tennis racket – these are also options for household attachments. Moreover, everyone knows the affection between people – Continue reading

They quarrel with you – that means you are needed!

A cat came to the man’s house. She came to the man and stayed with him, because here she was warm and comfortable. She was beautiful and did not hide her beauty, she could be stroked, and then she purred. When the man just sat, she gladly rubbed against his legs. She hardly stroked him that way, more so she received stroking herself. But this suited the man, and he left kitty. And then … Then the kitty got accustomed: it began to meow loudly when there was no milk in the bowl, it was no longer a guest, but a mistress on the bed, and when it was driven away, it offended released its claws and scratched. And it was already impossible to understand whether it was a joke or seriously.

However, the cat can climb onto the bed carefully, and always lies down – the mistress. This cat didn’t even Continue reading

I want to be loved and happy
We women love to dream. Imagine a prince on a white horse, a house full of flowers, kisses and smart kids at a family dinner ... Why, then again and…

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Man's betrayal: are all men equally prone to infidelity?
There is a fairly common myth about the lodging of men and their tendency to cheat on their wives and partners. Is it really? If such a myth exists, then…

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Family constitution
Our family is our world and our small state. Our Constitution is the main rule of our state. Our rules are not directed against anyone, but in the name of…

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Love and self-esteem. Idealization of a partner in premarital relations
Love is a conformal reaction to the norms and values ​​that prevail in society. And the norm in a modern developed society is, in particular, the idea that everyone at…

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