We got the relationship, but we don’t want to disperse: 7 rules for those who want to improve their relationship
Once you could lie nearby and enjoy dreaming, looking together at the high sky, but today it’s hard for you to talk even on everyday topics. You used to love…

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6 duties of the main bridesmaid
The merry bridesmaids and friends of the groom, it seems, have completely crowded out the witnesses who were relevant at Soviet weddings. But honeymooners still cannot do without people on…

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Uncertainty before the wedding: the opinion of a psychologist
Many couples think that a wedding is the peak in a relationship you want to strive for, or the finish line, followed by a reward - unlimited happiness. A successful…

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Rapprochement

The approach mechanism can be described through a metaphor of flowing water. Here comes a dense stream. He rests against an obstacle, stands in front of it for some time, accumulating strength, then breaks through the obstacle and rushes on with renewed energy. Until the next barrier.

So rapprochement. People, “striding” towards each other, stumble into obstacles (usually internal) and for some time crumple near them. True, unlike water, people can retreat, deciding that the barrier is too strong (read – not finding the courage to take another step forward).

But if people do not recede and – attention! – both step over the barrier, there is euphoria. Over time (a completely individual term), the euphoria passes. Or it doesn’t work – if people get together very quickly.

Actually, it is this euphoria that makes falling in love so attractive and attractive (or, if not only it, then certainly – the value of euphoria is VERY great). Loving in many respects is supported precisely due to rapprochement.

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When a family is created through sex, there’s nothing good about it

“Our women have three sexual disorders: pedophilia, bestiality, masochism.”

Recently, marriage statistics look like a social catastrophe: the number of divorces is almost equal to the number of marriages. According to psychologists, this happens mainly because many people get married for a variety of ridiculous reasons, except one true one – to build a family.

The famous psychotherapist and author of numerous books, Mikhail Litvak, spoke about who succeeds in creating a happy family and who will have to fill up the statistics of divorces.

Information: Litvak Mikhail Efimovich (born in 1938 in Rostov-on-Don) – a psychologist and Continue reading

Partnerships in the family: not always equality and not everyone can do it

In the comments on the test “I am the sun” and many articles on marital relations, you can often hear: “Domostroy does not suit me, there must be partnerships in the family!” But does everyone know what it is: partnerships? For our Russian culture this phenomenon is quite new, for some it is very like, but for someone it causes serious protests. The purpose of this article is to talk about partnerships in more detail, describe their pros and cons, and discuss who they are suitable for and who are not.
The essence of partnerships in family relations is that partners cast aside their prejudices about “how it should be in the family in general” and decide all specific issues themselves, agree on everything on an equal and free way. Continue reading

Rapprochement
The approach mechanism can be described through a metaphor of flowing water. Here comes a dense stream. He rests against an obstacle, stands in front of it for some time,…

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We got the relationship, but we don’t want to disperse: 7 rules for those who want to improve their relationship
Once you could lie nearby and enjoy dreaming, looking together at the high sky, but today it’s hard for you to talk even on everyday topics. You used to love…

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Flirt and coquetry
Flirting is a form of attracting attention with sexual overtones. Flirty - female flirting. Ever emphasizing her feminine virtues, sometimes hiding them and demonstrating her inaccessibility, a woman increases her…

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Love and self-esteem. Idealization of a partner in premarital relations
Love is a conformal reaction to the norms and values ​​that prevail in society. And the norm in a modern developed society is, in particular, the idea that everyone at…

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